At fringe festivals in Adelaide and Minneapolis over the last three years, I’ve seen entertaining and educational shows on these taboo topics. Yet, mentioning this to friends brings nervous laughter, uncomfortable reactions and a desire to avoid discussing the topics. These normal, small, but important parts of our bodies – we all have them – just can’t be discussed normally…and we are the poorer for it. Let’s talk about them.Read More »
Publically, we all believe affairs are bad for a marriage…until we have one ourselves it seems…. An insightful book I’ve just read (Esther Perel, ‘The State of Affairs’) casts new light on the varied meanings and impacts of affairs on marriages (or long term ‘relationships’) and gives a very different perspective on how marriage is and should evolve to account for this common critical event, based on her professional practice.Read More »
I’m a member of an organisation which owns a chainsaw. But, to operate it, a person needs to do a two day course and get a licence, which has to be renewed through training every six months. It got me wondering: why do you need a licence to operate a chainsaw when you don’t need a licence to operate a marriage, to be competent at sex or to raise children? (These are linked, but not necessarily in this order.) Surely these are much more important issues for individuals and for operating a society than operating a chainsaw?Read More »
This is a dangerous subject to blog on, but that’s what Hubbardtalk.com – thinking differently – is about. My name and details aren’t on the Ashley Madison site, but I think most men have thought about having an affair at one time or other, so I could be considered guilty by thought.